posted by: MT_Lightning on Sep 18, 2006 at 11:11pm
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have you ever had an unexpected guest star pop into your mind while masturbating or during sex with a partner?
i had never had it happen until just a few days ago&33; someone popped into my mind, and i went "oh, that’s odd" but i still went with it. how about you all?
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posted by: Grannit on Sep 19, 2006 at 4:22am
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| Guest Starring | Oh most definitely. I have lots of fantasies about people I know and people I saw in the street, or people I met that day. I don’t think I have ever had a fantasy about someone else during sex, though, unles sit is a shared fantasy with my partner.
.. and as far as what I do about it - hey,m I go with it - if someone turns me on that way, I am going to enjoy it! | |
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posted by: MT_Lightning on Sep 19, 2006 at 10:13am
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| Guest Starring | My case was someone that I do not find attractive in any way though...so that’s why it was weird.
I’ve had fantasies of others that have piqued my interest in some way, a few of the men here even in fact...but never anyone who I’m not attracted to.
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posted by: ab39zed on Sep 19, 2006 at 10:42am
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| Guest Starring | | It used to happen occassionally. But not any more. | |
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posted by: Suzanna on Sep 19, 2006 at 2:37pm
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| Guest Starring | that happens to me all the time! usually it’s someone who’s been on my mind for one reason or another.
it’s kinda weird running into them afterwards, i mean after they’ve been part of a fantasy... | |
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posted by: thegirldf on Sep 19, 2006 at 3:31pm
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| Guest Starring | | I rarely fantasize about someone other than the guy I am dating, but dangit if there isn’t this guy in my Lit class that keeps creeping into my mind. And Suz is right- it is weird seeing him afterwards, but it usually ends up in me re-thinking about the fatnast again in class while oogling the poor boy... | |
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posted by: swampdog on Sep 19, 2006 at 7:13pm
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| Guest Starring | | I’ve never had a guest star appear. Could think of a few I wouldn’t mind having though! | |
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posted by: MT_Lightning on Sep 19, 2006 at 10:45pm
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| Guest Starring | lol. Mine was my new manager. 
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posted by: jerome on Sep 20, 2006 at 12:07pm
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| Guest Starring | fuz im sure he doesnt mind. | |
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posted by: glenn churvin on Sep 20, 2006 at 12:33pm
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| Guest Starring | during masturbation i’ve defintely have had unecpected faces show up. one was my high school math teacher. she was very attractive when she taught me. i recently saw her and lets just say time has not treated her well.
during sex i have never fantasized about any one. i think i’m so into the person i’m with that its not necessary | |
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posted by: thegirldf on Sep 20, 2006 at 12:57pm
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| Guest Starring | | Lol- Jerome- I don’t know if he would mind or not, but I don’t plan on him ever finding out. I rarely have such strong attractions to guys, but whew, this guy is quite nice to look at. | |
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posted by: jerome on Sep 20, 2006 at 2:22pm
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| Guest Starring | hes going to read this thread. | |
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posted by: thegirldf on Sep 20, 2006 at 3:26pm
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| Guest Starring | | oh my gosh- Jerome- that is a scary thought! Get to class and he slinks over to me and says, "I read what you said about me on your sexy website." But whew, this kid could make my panties melt if he wanted to, so that would be the most embarrassing moment of my lfie. | |
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posted by: Wallygator on Sep 21, 2006 at 8:40am
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| Guest Starring | Guest Stars do pop in from time to time...... Also draw upon past lovers as well occasionally and particular tricks or acts that they performed very well that fuel the fantasy.... HAd past lover who was enjoyed anal while current lover does not so when anal is a part of the fantasy then I switch to her and go for it...... | |
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posted by: MT_Lightning on Sep 21, 2006 at 10:08am
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| Guest Starring | Now...
would you be bothered to know that your SO was thinking of someone else? | |
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posted by: Grannit on Sep 21, 2006 at 12:56pm
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| Guest Starring | While they were masturbating? No, I think that’s a wonderful idea and I encourage it.
While they were having sex with me? That would be a problem unles sit was a fantasy that we were sharing (which we have done many times!) | |
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posted by: thegirldf on Sep 21, 2006 at 1:36pm
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| Guest Starring | | Why do you encourage that, Grannit? | |
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posted by: Grannit on Sep 21, 2006 at 2:10pm
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| Guest Starring | I think that fantasies are a part of a healthy sex-life. For example, Fuz, just because I have sexual fantasies about you does not mean that I would automatically want to do anything in real life with you. In fantasies life can be simple - no consequences, etc. Real life is rarely, if ever, like that.
I am not the most attractive guy in the world. if my partners find other guys attractive And a turn-on then i have absolutely no issue with that. It only becomes something I have to deal with if they become a substitue for me, or if something is actually going to happen between that person and my partner. I like to know what turns my partners on and I like to share with them what turns me on.
Make sense? | |
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posted by: thegirldf on Sep 21, 2006 at 3:30pm
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| Guest Starring | | Yeah- that does make sense. I’ll admit, I’d be upset to hear about my boyfriends fantasies, but it’s neat that you and your partner are so open and understanding. | |
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posted by: MT_Lightning on Sep 21, 2006 at 10:55pm
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| Guest Starring | I don’t mind if they do it, i just don’t wanna hear about it.
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posted by: jerome on Sep 22, 2006 at 7:06am
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| Guest Starring | just a note fuz, what you said about your panties melting is probably the most erotic thing ive ever heard you say | |
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posted by: jerome on Sep 22, 2006 at 7:06am
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| Guest Starring | or seen you type i guess | |
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posted by: thegirldf on Sep 22, 2006 at 7:58am
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| Guest Starring | I agree with MT- I’d hate to hear if my boyfriend had fantasies and all the details. It’s natural and such, but it’s just not something I’d like to hear him go off about. And I’d never tell him about mine.
And ya like that Jerome? That’s one of my favorite expressions. Ya think it’d work on the guy in my Lit class? | |
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posted by: jerome on Sep 22, 2006 at 8:16am
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| Guest Starring | i think you could walk up to him and say hi and have it in the bag | |
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posted by: Grannit on Sep 22, 2006 at 8:20am
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| Guest Starring | Well, in a related story, have you ever found out what sort of woman your boyfriend finds "ideal" in the way of eye-candy? Not in terms of to have a relationship with, just purely the "meat" - what is physically attractive to your boyfriend?
one of the most liberating things my partners and I do is talk about what we find attractive in someone else.
I mean we are willing to come on here and talk about who is hot and who is not, but do you know what your own partner thinks, the person you know better in the whole world? Does your partner know what you think? | |
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posted by: thegirldf on Sep 22, 2006 at 8:26am
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| Guest Starring | | Yeah- I do. My attributes are actually what he likes. And I know that everyone will say, yeah right, but we were friends for 5 years before we dated. I know everything about him when it comes to those sorta things, because he wouldn’t feel the need to lie to me and say my type is his ideal when we’re just friends. So, when, at 15 or 16 your boyfriend tells you he likes taller, curvier girls with long dark hair, and you don’t date until like 18, you can pretty sure you are actually your type. It’s sorta nice, actually. | |
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posted by: jerome on Sep 22, 2006 at 8:43am
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| Guest Starring | the wife once found some photos i had on our computer and she couldnt understand why all the girls wernt super model looking | |
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posted by: Grannit on Sep 22, 2006 at 9:03am
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| Guest Starring | | Jerome - what sort of guys does your wife think are attractive? | |
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posted by: thegirldf on Sep 22, 2006 at 9:17am
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| Guest Starring | That’s sort of a neat thing to find out, Grannit.
Homework assignment for the night- Go home and find out what your mate finds attractive...as Grannit said- the "meat" | |
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posted by: Grannit on Sep 22, 2006 at 9:26am
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| Guest Starring | Right, we’re not talking about who you would have a relationship with - this is purely about the looks only. And the "you know I don’t look honey, I only want you" is a cop-out.
If they are feeling threatened, try actors/actresses. Those are a lot less threatening than someone you work with or your brother/sister! try to spot trends. | |
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posted by: thegirldf on Sep 22, 2006 at 9:33am
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| Guest Starring | | Yeah- that is a cop out. I mean, it’s impossible to not look when people walk right in front of you every day. I mean- geez, you’re gonna notice a hot person even if you’re not trying. | |
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posted by: Grannit on Sep 22, 2006 at 9:36am
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| Guest Starring | | You’d be surprised how many guys I know that actually say that to their partners, and when i am out with them are ogling women like crazy. | |
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posted by: jerome on Sep 22, 2006 at 12:10pm
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| Guest Starring | i will try to get more info on her but the famous people that she gets wet over all have nothing in common asthetically speaking. | |
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posted by: Grannit on Sep 22, 2006 at 12:15pm
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| Guest Starring | | So what makes her wet? | |
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posted by: jerome on Sep 22, 2006 at 12:17pm
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| Guest Starring | bam margera, and gavin degraw and nip tuck | |
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posted by: MT_Lightning on Sep 22, 2006 at 2:20pm
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| Guest Starring | | well, she has a wonderful list! I agree with all those! | |
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posted by: jerome on Sep 22, 2006 at 2:54pm
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| Guest Starring | gavin degraw is sick looking though | |
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posted by: MT_Lightning on Sep 22, 2006 at 7:56pm
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| Guest Starring | well, he is different looking. However, Bam and the Nip Tuck guys are smokin’ hot!
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